“Grief Can Be a Burden But Also an Anchor..” (Sarah Dessen)

Moments ago, I ran across this quote from Sarah Dessen from The Truth About Forever: “Grief can be a burden but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, to how it holds you to a place.” I have to admit, as of this moment, I am unsure exactly what I think about the proposal of grief as an “anchor” in a positive context.

So, it is time to poll the “audience.” What do you think? Is there a way in which grief can have positive benefits on your life by helping you be more grounded? Why or why not?